Tuesday, October 25, 2005
Should you be friends with your ex?
Should you have a friendship with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend? Is it a good thing? I don't see the problems with it. Maybe I haven't seen it the way that others see it, though.
I have stopped being friends with my last girlfriend because, uh, well, things just didn't go right. We were engaged and it didn't work out. It is a little more complicated in that situation, I think.
Does anyone else out there have an opinion on this matter?
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NO never not for any reasons only problems can happen
ReplyDeleteBob's right. Only problems. You shouldn't ever even talk to them, let alone see them or (heaven forbid) go to taco bell with them. Especially if you decide to start dating someone else, that will just cause jealousy and bad feelings. Basically what you should do is burn everything that reminds you of them, destroy any pictures you have of the two of you together, and if possible, erase all memories of the time you spent togather. Ask your friends and family to kindly not mention them in your presence and if you have any mutual friends, cut all ties (or ask them not to be friends with your ex anymore).
ReplyDeleteHa ha ha... Nice rebuttal. It seems to me that if you truly had a good relationship with "your ex" that being friends afterward shouldn't be a problem. However you must both have a mutal understanding that you simply aren't meant to be and that it is completely understood as a friendship. You wouldn't want one or the other deciding that they want to be back in a "paired-off" relationship again.
ReplyDeleteCows and horses can graze together but usually don't. It's your live stock you can do as you please.
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